Update on Aubrey

I have had a couple of appointments since I last updated on Aubrey. I'm happy to report that both appointments have been pretty uneventful. I had an Ultrasound last Friday to check the fluid level and everything looked great. Fluid was in the normal range and she is growing and measuring right on track. They said she weighs 2 lbs 7 oz! That's close to what Macy weighed when she was born (2 lbs 13 oz.). I have gained 21 lbs so far (not that anybody reading this cares about that but I use this blog to "document" the things in our life that I would never remember otherwise). I also had my glucose screening and got the results back from that yesterday. I do not have gestational diabetes but my blood work came back that I am "a tad anemic." So, the Dr. put me on some iron supplements to take in addition to my prenatal vitamin. This is not surprising. Even when I am not pregnant, doctors always tell me that my iron levels are low or that I am borderline anemic.

One exciting thing is that we set the c-section date for December 17th! Only 12 weeks away! I ordered her bedding and have spent quite a bit of time going through boxes of Ava and Macy's baby stuff, but other than that I haven't done anything to the nursery. Every time I go in there, I get overwhelmed by all of the baby gear and piles of baby clothes so I just shut the door and walk away. I plan to get in there this weekend though and get some things done. This pic will give you an idea of what her bedding will look like. I ordered it from etsy so it is being custom made, but it looks just like this except it is light pink and gray instead of purple and gray.

 

 

Here are some 3-D pics from the ultrasound last week:

 

 

 

 See her foot right by her head? Her toe is almost touching her forehead!





 



Fall Is In The Air

Well, it actually still feels a lot like summer here. The high today is 95 but we have had a few fall-like days. But it is the end of September and fall activities are in full swing around here. We have settled into our back to school routine. The girls love their new school. It makes me so happy that they enjoy being there and love their friends and teachers. They are learning SO much. This past week, they brought home two little books that they had made and "read" them to us. One was about colors and one was an "I can" book (I can swim, I can run, etc.). They had written most of the words in the books (without tracing) and then read the words to us. I'm so happy that they are learning so much and that they love to learn (for now anyway!). They are also taking gymnastics this year. They love jumping on the trampolines, swinging on the bars, and walking across the balance beam. For some reason, I haven't taken a single picture of this yet but will soon.

We have made two trips to Fayetteville for Razorback games. We went to the first game during Labor Day weekend and then the Alabama game last weekend. Although our beloved Hogs are a huge disappointment this season, we still had a blast both weekends. For the first game, the girls went with Ben and I to the game. This was actually their first Razorback game to go to with us. They have been to one other one with Mom and Dad and a few tailgates but they have never actually sat in our seats with us before. They loved it. Their favorite parts were the fireworks when we scored a touchdown (thank goodness we didn't take them to the Alabama game or they really would have been disappointed) and the cotton candy. They did great at the game but Ben and I didn't get to see a whole lot of it, because they asked a MILLION questions the whole time. They wanted to know every little detail of what was going on around them which is no different than how they are all the time, but there were lots of things going on for them to ask about and it's really hard to concentrate on watching the game when they are CONSTANTLY talking to you. : ) We decided not to take them to the next game which was a good decision since it ended up being a terrible game and raining the whole time. Mom and Dad came up and watched them while we went to the game. Like I said, the game was terrible but we had a lot of fun tailgating and spending time with our friends without the kiddos.

Grammy and Pawpaw came to visit one weekend and we put them to work. : ) Grammy made some super cute curtains for the girls' rooms and she recovered our dining room chairs for us.  One major project that we have been working on is decorating our downstairs (entryway, living room, breakfast nook, dining room). It looks really good and is finished for the most part so I am going to take some pictures and devote a whole post to it. I think I have been saying for a year that I was going to do a post about our "new" house, but I promise that is coming. I have also been back to the Dr. a couple of times so I will post about that too but in a separate post. Here are some pics from September.........



playing Baggo at the tailgate

 

Loved seeing the Chic-Fil-A cow at the game. Macy wouldn't stop petting him.

 

This giant blow up Hog was at Mom and Dad's hotel

Macy is pretending she is camping at Cabella's

Swimming at the hotel

Ava. So grown up.

We met up with the whole Cockrell clan for brunch on Sunday. This is my sister in law Jacqueline, my cousins Sara and Amy, and Amy's two girls Ellia and Marys. As you can tell from Ellia and Macy's faces, we were looking right into the sun. Not the best picture but at least it captured that we were all together.

This was at home yesterday. Ava asked me to "send our family of a picture of her acting like a cheerleader."

Macy eating some of Eddie's delicious ribs at the Nalley house last night. Yummy!

Big Day in Pre-K

Ava and Macy started Pre-K yesterday. I put them in a new school this year so I wasn't sure how they would do when I dropped them off. It usually takes them a couple of weeks to adjust to the back to school routine. The last few years there have been tears all around after summer break. But I'm happy to report no tears yesterday or today. They barely even acknowledged me as I was leaving!

I took some pictures of them before we left. I stole this idea from someone on Facebook.  I asked them each what they wanted to be when they grow up. I asked them individually because I knew they would copy each other's answers. Because I'm not crafty at all, I just typed it out and printed it. Hopefully I can keep this first day of school tradition going, because I think it will be fun to see how these answers change as the years go on. I also had them draw a picture and write something (I helped with spelling of course) about what they want to be. 

Ava's initial answer was "a big sister." I told her that she didn't have to wait to grow up to be a big sister because that was going to happen in a few months, so her next answer was "a mom." She is definitely my little nurturer. Love that quality about her!

"Mom and Babies"

She told me all the babies were lined up to go outside with their mom to see the rainbow and play on the slide. (I think the slide is the blue thing above the mom).

That's right. An elf. I swear I am not making this stuff up with this girl. She is so silly! She wants to help Santa make toys and ride in his sleigh and take care of the reindeer. I guess that really is every kids dream. I just don't know how she thinks of this stuff! She told Ben the other day that she "signed up to be an Elf" so I think because I printed this off she thinks it is official and she really will be an elf one day. : )

"Santa and his elves"

Love the little elf hats!

I also had my appointment with the high risk OB yesterday to see what she thought about my fluid levels. And we got great news!! She said that everything looks fine and that she is not worried at all. She measured the fluid level well within the normal range. I'm not sure if the level is increasing or if there is a discrepancy in how two people measure it. I think mostly it is just answered prayers. My regular OB will continue to monitor it and I will continue to drink a ton of water. I'm drinking a gallon a day! It's such a relief to know that baby Aubrey is doing well! 

Baby Update

I had my follow up ultrasound yesterday for baby girl. She is still measuring right on track.  Her heart, brain, kidneys, and bladder all look good. We saw her left arm and hand which they couldn't see last time. The only concern is that the fluid around her is still a little low. It is just below what they consider "normal." He explained to me that 11.2 to 17.5 (I think it's measured in cm) are considered normal amounts of fluid and mine is at an 11. So, I'm just barely below that normal range. It's not a huge concern at this point but he is sending me to a specialist to see if they can figure out why it is low. He said that sending me to someone else is an ultra conservative approach, but he just wants to have someone that is trained in high risk pregnancies look at it and make sure that he is not missing something. I am pretty sure that at one point, Macy's fluid was at a 4 and I think even a 2, so that tells you how far we are from this being a severe situation; however, with Macy and Ava we knew why their fluid levels were off. With this one, we don't know what is causing it which kind of scares me. There has to be a reason, so I'm a little worried about what that reason is. My appointment with the perinatologist is Monday so we'll see what she says. I'm sure it is nothing and because it is borderline they will just want to watch it throughout the pregnancy (more ultrasounds! Yeah!) but we would still appreciate prayers that everything will be fine and that baby girl will continue to grow and thrive just like she is now.

In other more exciting news, we have decided on a name!! We are going to name her Aubrey James. We had Aubrey on our list of names for the twins, and I have loved it since then. Ben's middle name is James, so I like that we are giving her a family name and that James is kind of fun and edgy for a girl. Ben, Macy, and I love it and Ava is finally coming around. She named one of her stuffed animals Caroline, so now she is good with naming the baby Aubrey.

During the ultrasound yesterday, they took one 4-D picture. I think it is adorable, especially the way her hands are up around her face. And I swear she has Ben's mouth. : )



Family Vacation: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Well, we took the girls on our first family vacation last weekend. We went for a long weekend to San Antonio to do Sea World and Aquatica (Sea World's water park). It was..... interesting. It was really good at times and really bad at times. I'll start with the good.

Day 1 (the good): We left super early Friday morning to head to San Antonio. Our plan was to leave at 6am to beat the Dallas morning rush hour and get to the water park before lunch. We ended up pulling out of the garage at about 5:45am! We hoped the girls would go back to sleep once in the car but they didn't. They were really good on the drive though . They just watched movies the whole time. Early morning traveling is the way to go. Nobody has the energy to fight with their sister or constantly ask, "When are we going to be there?" We got to SA around 11:00 so we stopped at a McDonalds near Sea World and ate lunch before going in. Aquatica is inside Sea World so you have the option to do both in one day but we decided to just focus on the water park the first day. The girls loved it! I couldn't believe how brave they were with some of the water slides. They tend to be scaredy cats sometimes so I didn't know what to expect but they didn't hesitate to do every slide they could. In my current pregnant condition, I couldn't do the slides so my job was picture taker, backpack holder, and water drinker. Kind of a bummer for me but it was fun to see what a blast they were having. They also LOVED the wave pool. So, after all that excitement, everyone was having so much fun that we decided to dry off and head into Sea World for dinner and maybe a show or to see some animals. After dinner, we went to a sea lion show which was really funny and kind of amazing that they can train sea lions to basically "act" in a skit. Macy fell asleep and missed some of it but Ava loved it. Next, we went to a pirate 4-D movie and then decided to call it quits after that. It had been a long day and we were all pretty tired so we stopped off for ice cream and then crashed at the hotel. Day 1 = success!

This is the first really big slide that they went down. They rode with Ben in an intertube down huge, twisting tunnels. One of the tunnels was made of glass and you could see sting rays swimming above you. In this picture, I am trying to capture the LONG line they had to wait in. The picture doesn't really do it justice but it took 50 minutes from the start of the line until their turn.

This is the slide. You can see the sting rays swimming around in the bottom of the picture.

Here they come!

Telling me all about the slide.

This is what they did next. Ben could only ride with one of them. So he rode with  one while the other rode by herself. They took turns doing that then they both wanted to ride alone and didn't want Ben anymore!

Day 2 (the bad... with some good too): We got back to Sea World around 9am the next morning. First, we went to see and feed the Dolphins. The dolphin feeding started at 10:00 so we stood in line for a while to get our fish to feed them. I was able to take the girls to see the dolphins for a bit while Ben stood in line but they still had to wait for a while. Feeding and petting the dolphins was really cool though and definitely worth the wait. Next, we moved on to the Bay of Play which is a huge play area with jungle gyms, carnival rides and games, and a splash park. It is all themed around Sesame Street characters. Obviously, this was their favorite part of Sea World. Forget Shamu and petting dolphins. They rode some of the rides then Elmo, Cookie Monster and some of the other characters came out and did a performance then walked around for a meet and greet. The girls got a picture with all of them then we headed for some lunch. So far, so good. There were a few cranky moments in there but nothing to really write about. I could tell the waiting for the dolphins, waiting in line for rides, waiting in line for pictures, and waiting in line for lunch was starting to wear on Macy but she was holding it together okay at this point. After lunch we went to a show called Azule. This was kind of like Cirque du Soleil with acrobats, dolphins, and birds. It was very entertaining but this is where Macy started her descent into "the bad." Ava was very interested in what the animals were doing and watched the show attentively but Macy started to get antsy and whiny. She had a hard time sitting still and paying attention. Not a huge deal but I could tell it was going to take a miracle for her to snap out of this mood. After the show, we went to check out one of the "big" rides. It was a roller coaster/ water ride. The sign said the girls were tall enough to ride as long as an adult was with them. I couldn't ride so Ben and the girls headed to get in line. I was going to find a bathroom when I noticed the sign that said, "the current wait for this ride is 1 hour and 30 minutes." They would have never made it waiting that long! They had waited about 50 minutes for the water slide the day before but that was when they were fresh and not already cranky. I fought my through the line of people and found them. Ben was already fussing at them about waiting patienty when I got to them. We decided to leave the line and try coming back later that evening when some of the crowds had dwindled. Well, this did not go over well with already tired and cranky and easy to upset Macy. She did not handle getting out of line well. And things descended rapidly from there. It was SO hot and SO crowded. We decided to get a drink and a snack and then go see the penguins which is inside and we hoped cooler (has to be cool where the penguins are, right?). The line to get a drink was crazy long but we stuck it out and got a drink and a snack. Of course, there were no available tables so we went back out into the heat and sat in the grass to eat and drink. Macy just kept on with the whining and fit throwing. She was hot, she didn't want to sit on the grass, she wanted gatorade not apple juice, Ava had more pudding than her, and on and on. It went from whining into full blown tantruming. Now, I know my girls and their moods, and I knew that she wasn't going to recover from this. She might have been okay if we had been at home and she could have napped for a while but there was no way she was going to be able to make it in the heat, waiting in lines for the next 6 hours. We had been threatening for the last 2 hours that we were going to take her home if she didn't straighten up and finally when people started to stare at our screaming child in the middle of Sea World Ben looked at me and said, "I'll take her to the hotel and you and Ava stay." I agreed without hesitation. Usually, I am the queen of empty threats. But this time, I knew we had to follow through and really take her home. At least this way, Ava and I still had a fun day versus all of us leaving or Macy staying and ruining it for all of us.  Of course, she screamed bloody murder when Ben was taking her out of the park. He said he was sure people thought he was kidnapping her the way she was screaming. I don't know if that was the right parenting move, and I still feel kind of guilty about it but I knew that there was no way that she was going to be able to get it together and enjoy the rest of the day. And it wasn't fair to Ava if we all left. Ava and I actually had a great time together after all of the Macy drama. I felt terrible for Macy and even worse for Ben, but Ava and I saw the penguins, went to dinner, went to the Shamu show, and she rode more rides. It was so nice being able to give her all of my attention and letting her choose whatever she wanted to do without having to take turns with anyone. I wish I could spend more one on one time with them, but it is just so hard to do (and only going to get harder when #3 gets here!).

I realize that I just wrote a novel and I doubt that anyone is still reading but here is the moral of the story: vacationing with little kids is NOT a vacation! It is actually more work than just staying at home. However, I know we will have many more family vacations to come, because there actually were some really great parts too.

Watching the dolphins while waiting in line to feed them.

Looking at the fish before feeding the dolphins.

This is the Shamu roller coaster. They are in the second cart. You can barely see their little heads in the cart.

The Sesame Street characters came out during one of their performances and gave high fives to kids in the audience. It was funny to see how star struck the girls were with them. They kept saying it's the REAL Elmo not just somebody dressed up.

Ava is at the top of this ride by herself. This was after the Macy drama but she didn't mind riding all of the rides alone.

We saw this statue of Shamu and Ava said, "You should take my picture by that. That would be a cute picture." She keeps me on my toes.

Waiting on the Shamu show to start.